Girl in a big world.

Wednesday 8th October 2008.


Ok, so today didn't go quite to plan, but everything turned out for the better anyway so it doesn't really matter.
Some people today have made me really notice about how we all live completely wrapped up in our own little world completely careless to the worlds of others. I know some people are more prone to this than others but we can all be counted in this in some way or another. It's just never as obvious if your world's quite big. It's when you own world's small and you refuse to open it up a bit that it starts to cause conflict.
Today i was talking to a friend about how people moan about when their friends change when they've been in a relationship. This is unbelievably narrow minded to say it. When you think about it, yes, they have changed but it's impossible not to. The chances are that when they met you they changed too, because we all change all the time, and that isn't what causes the problems. It's when the people that surround you aren't invited to make the change with you or to just watch you change, that causes the problems. Which is understandable, no one likes to be intentionally or unintentionally left behind.So when you meet someone new be aware that the chances are you're going to change, but change can be good. Just make sure you don't leave people behind that you need, or more importantly the ones that need you.

Your priorities determine your progress.
Girl in a big world.
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